The Only Relevant Question
There is a raging debate in the US regarding same-sex marriage. Who supports it, who doesn’t? We hear from one side that the government should allow gay marriage. We hear from the other side that the government should not allow gay marriage. However, very few are asking the only relevant question: Why is the government involved in marriage at all?
Marriage is a mutually agreed upon relationship between two consenting individuals. It can be a beautiful thing, and I look forward to getting married. However, there is absolutely no reason for the government to be involved in this decision. Marriage doesn’t affect anyone except those involved, and therefore should neither be rewarded nor punished by governments.
The Military Behind Your Marriage
Remember what government is: power backed by force. So, do I support gay marriage? Absolutely not, nor do I support heterosexual marriage. By that I mean that I do not support any government giving ANY benefits to married people, whether they be same-sex, opposite sex, intra-racial, interracial, interspecies, etc.
Married couples today receive numerous financial benefits from federal, state, and local governments. They get tax breaks, tax credits, social security benefits, etc. Therefore, governments subsidize marriage. There are several problems with this. First of all, this incentivizes couples to get married, some of whom otherwise wouldn’t. Do we want people to be getting married because of government-granted benefits? On that same note, is anyone looking at the statistics? The divorce rate is approaching 50% in the United States. We are very close to effectively subsidizing divorce.
Think about what happens when the government subsidizes marriage. A 22-year-old unmarried couple graduates from college with a combined $50,000 in debt (due to government "subsidization" of education). If they are lucky enough to land a job, they pay taxes on their income. Some of those taxes, either directly or indirectly, pay for the benefits of married couples, some of whom may have millions in the bank. Let me ask you this: why is it that a pair 22 year-olds, struggling to pay their bills, are forced to give money to a retired couple living comfortably? It makes absolutely zero economic or moral sense.
Think about what happens when the government subsidizes marriage. A 22-year-old unmarried couple graduates from college with a combined $50,000 in debt (due to government "subsidization" of education). If they are lucky enough to land a job, they pay taxes on their income. Some of those taxes, either directly or indirectly, pay for the benefits of married couples, some of whom may have millions in the bank. Let me ask you this: why is it that a pair 22 year-olds, struggling to pay their bills, are forced to give money to a retired couple living comfortably? It makes absolutely zero economic or moral sense.
The Constitution Does Not Mention Marriage
The Constitution enumerates the powers of the federal government. This means that if the Constitution does not specifically grant the federal government a specific power, then the federal government does not have the right to wield such a power. If you want to argue that the federal government can do this or that, then you have to point to words of the Constitution that specifically grant this power. Nowhere in the Constitution does it say that the federal government can grant benefits to married people, let alone some married people and not others, and that's not by accident of omission.
Now, the Constitution does not restrict the states or local governments from doing so. That is also not by accident. To the extent that a state makes the mistake of subsidizing or otherwise giving benefits to married couples, then same-sex couples should be given the same rights as heterosexual couples, in a moral sense (not necessarily legal). The reason is simple: individuals consent to marry, and this doesn’t affect the freedom of others. No laws should ever be passed that restrict the freedom of individuals, unless that freedom abrogates the freedom of others. If two men or women marry, you may find it repulsive, gross, unnatural, disgusting, etc. Your delicate sensibilities are irrelevant: their marriage does not affect you any more than their choice of shoes. The government should not use force (which is all it has at its disposal) to take freedoms away from some that don’t affect the freedom of others.
States Can Make the Mistake of Getting Involved in Marriage
States do have the legal right to restrict the rights of gay couples and grant rights to straight couples. The beauty of the Constitution is that states are forced to compete. If a state decides to ban gay marriage and subsidize heterosexual marriage, then anyone who doesn’t approve of this can vote with their feet, and move to a state that doesn’t do so. If a state turns enough people off, they lose revenue, and are forced to change their laws. This why we are the “United States of America,” referred to as plural in the early days of our country, but referred to erroneously, though unsurprisingly, in the singular nowadays (ie, “the Unites States of America welcome others”…vs. “The United States of America welcomes others…”). The danger is when the federal government makes such laws: there’s no escape except to leave the country. That’s precisely why the Constitution prohibits the federal government from making any laws that impinge on individual freedom, and allows the states to do so. But we don’t pay attention to that old, arcane document anymore.
Ignorance Regarding the Biology of Homosexuality
Now I’d like to talk about arguments against homosexuality in general, given all of the ignorance regarding it.
It is unnatural, it goes against evolution, and you can’t be born gay, etc.
If you know basic human biology, you know that we have 46 chromosomes. The difference between a man and a woman is ONE chromosome, and it’s the smallest one. Men are XY, and women are XX. It is entirely possible that whatever genetic program dictates sexual orientation is altered in homosexuals. Therefore, to argue that you can’t be “born gay” is entirely moronic. Why couldn’t you be born gay? We don’t even know what makes us straight yet! By sheer probability, some people will be born gay if this happens, and there’s no reason to think that this doesn’t happen.
Also, the hormonal environment in the womb may be responsible for the homosexuality of some. I did an internship at Harvard and worked with zebrafish. Zebrafish mate when a male pursues a female. The female releases eggs, and the male fertilizes them with his sperm. There is one study (I will try to find the link) in which the researchers altered the hormonal environment of developing female zebrafish by exposing them to male-specific hormones. When the females developed, they displayed "lesbian" behavior: they pursued other females the way a male zebrafish would. This raises the question: isn’t it possible that this could happen in humans? Isn’t it possible that the hormonal environment in the womb could alter the neural circuitry in the fetal brain such that sexual orientation is reversed? Again, by sheer probability, this is bound to happen in some individuals if it can indeed happen. There is absolutely no reason to think that it couldn’t happen.
Also, for all we know, homosexuality may be part of our evolution. To think that we understand all of the intricacies of evolution at this point, when we eat grains/carbs the way we do, is comically absurd. Homosexuality may be partly designed by evolution to curb population growth. They could serve the evolutionary purpose of caring for those whose parents died or otherwise can’t care for their own children. This would not be that much different than patriots who are willing to die for their country in their prime of life. Homosexuality very well could be part of our evolution.
As Usual, Government: Get Out of Marriage
Marriage can be wonderful, and it could be argued that it is the bedrock of a happy family, a happy life, and a happy society. That being said, there is nothing wrong with choosing not to get married, as that choice does not affect anyone else. Those who choose not to marry should not be punished by the government, which is the case if marriage is subsidized. The bottom line is that the government, especially the federal government, should make no laws regarding heterosexual or homosexual marriage. In fact, it is illegal for the federal government to do so, as it violates the Constitution.
If someone doesn't support same-sex marriage, that's fine: their opinion does not matter if the government isn't behind them. The government is supposed to protect individual freedom, not subsidize or supress it. This means that it should protect the rights of people to marry whomever they please, with no benefit and no punishment for doing so. A church, or any group not powered by government, should have the right the ban or shun homosexuals if they so wish. The federal government does not and should not have this right. States can choose as they please, but, in my not-so-humble opinion, they should choose to support individual freedom, not any specific group. If we actually followed the Constitution on this issue, then we wouldn’t have the Supreme(ly Incompetent) Court and entire federal government worrying about Stan marrying Steve when they should be worrying about terrorist attacks, the way the Constitution intended.
If someone doesn't support same-sex marriage, that's fine: their opinion does not matter if the government isn't behind them. The government is supposed to protect individual freedom, not subsidize or supress it. This means that it should protect the rights of people to marry whomever they please, with no benefit and no punishment for doing so. A church, or any group not powered by government, should have the right the ban or shun homosexuals if they so wish. The federal government does not and should not have this right. States can choose as they please, but, in my not-so-humble opinion, they should choose to support individual freedom, not any specific group. If we actually followed the Constitution on this issue, then we wouldn’t have the Supreme(ly Incompetent) Court and entire federal government worrying about Stan marrying Steve when they should be worrying about terrorist attacks, the way the Constitution intended.
